Digital crossover
After trying so many different combination with steep/shallow crossover filters, I begain to conclude that LR filters are no good. At least within the digital crossover world, things are so flexible that I can do a bit more.
I came across a post by Uli about Bessel filter and the step response. Besel filter is a very special filter in that you can have asymmetric slope for the high pass and low pass end. I have selected to use a 2nd order for the high frequency for the mid and 10th order low frequency end for the tweeter.
I have also increase the proportion of the lower end (<60hz)>
The benefit of Bessel filter is that there is no ranging with the step response
Now:
Sub: <60Hz, Bessel attenuated to 70%
Woofer: cross at 200Hz, Bessel attenuated to 30% 18dB right
Mid: cross at 2000Hz, Bessel filter - 18dB left, 12dB right
Tweeter: Bessel filter - 18dB left, 12dB right